
Joe got the kids their smoothies and I got them their clothes and Riesling, Cashel and I headed out the door. It was our turn to drive so we went to get Hannah (5) and hurried to ballet class at Ballet Extension in Bridgewater. While we were there Cashel insisted that I help him with a 500 piece puzzle that had been started.
After class, I took all 3 kids with me to get a mammogram. Yes, a mammogram. I wasn’t sure if it would be possible, but I was the only patient at RMH Women’s Health Focus so the receptionist decided that the children would be alright. After the 3 Musketeers each got a tiny paper cup full of water from the water cooler, we proceeded down the hall to a room. There the nurse asked me some breast questions and instructed me to remove my clothing from the waist up and put on gownish type top with the snaps in front. As soon as she left, Hannah asked what they were going to do to me. I explained that they were going to look for cancer in my breasts. She asked, “What’s cancer?” I told her that it was a disease that makes people very very sick and that it usually happens when folks get older…er hrm…like me. She seemed fine with all that and I turned around and slipped into my exam top. We quickly proceeded to the mammogram room, which had a little waiting room, directly outside. The kids each chose a seat and I went in to get my boobs smooshed.
A little OT here: It wasn’t bad at all! The RN did say she had 28 years of experience so that might count for something. I’ll tell you what–it was much more pleasant than a pap-smear. Back on topic.
I peaked out at the kids in between breasts and were glad to see that they weren’t tearing up the place. When the Nurse was done, I put my exam top back on and went out to the waiting room. Hannah immediately showed me a modest photo in a magazine of a woman getting a mammogram. I was really excited that they could see how the machine worked and what I had done. I had seen that a digital image of my breast was on a screen as I left the exam room and I asked the RN if I could show the kids. She said that the images weren’t allowed to be shown to anyone. Oh good grief!
I got Riesling, Cashel and Hannah into the van and buckled up and we went to Martin’s. While we were in the van, I gave them each $2 (Riesling and Cashel didn’t spend their $1 yesterday.) I let them know that we were going to the Harrisonburg Farmer’s Market after this so if they spent their money here, there wouldn’t have any left for some popcorn that they like to buy. We raced through the store, literally, and made it through with all three of them retaining their $2.
We stepped out of the store and into a monsoon. We didn’t have an umbrella or our rain coats because I didn’t think the weather would turn that ugly in the very short time that we were inside. We all ran to the car holding hands and the cart. I bustled the kids into the van, threw my groceries in and jumped in myself. My face and glasses were sopping wet and my hair was all crazy. I turned around and looked at all of them and said, “Whoo HOO, it’s monsoon season!” Hannah burst out laughing and said, “You look funny, Gleamer.” I got a couple of giggles from my two. I straightened my self up the best I could, gave my kids their sandwiches and Hannah her prepacked lunch and drove to downtown Harrisonburg.
The rain had subsided considerably by the time we got to our next destination. As we pulled up next to the Farmers and their stands, I spotted Emilia from Shenandoah Valley Community School. Her Dad was talking to Sarah and her husband. Riesling was really excited and she and Emelia gave each other a huge hug. Sarah seemed in a hurry, said a quick hello and she and her husband went on their way. Emilia’s Mom and I chatted about The Nutcracker and they asked me to get tickets for their family. Meanwhile, all the kids were running around laughing. I suddenly realized I had a little person’s hand in mine and looked down to see Hannah. I asked her if she was doing alright, and let her know that she could go play if she wanted to. She stood by my side for a minute or so and then was suddenly in the midst of a game of ring around the rosy. Emilia’s little sister, Kahutia, wiped out so Tiffani went to tend to her. I said my “see you laters” and announced to my crew that I was walking down the wide aisle to see what the venders had to offer my dinner table.
They straggled along, laughing and playing and running. I showed the kids the purple cauliflower and orange cauliflower and white cauliflower that I found. They were very interested in the colors. They sampled some fresh ground fennel and rye bread and and then they began to wonder where the popcorn was, except for Cashel. He went directly to the venders and asked them where the ice cream was. I talked to the popcorn maker’s wife and she said that he got home very early this morning and was just too tired to set it up. They were sad, but decided on some pumpkin bread. When I slowly and purposefully helped Riesling and Cashel count out her money, the Mennonite woman asked me if we home schooled. I let her know that did. She said that they did too.
We went to round 2 of ballet. The children continued to eat in the car as we made the short trip back to Bridgewater. This practice was for the Polychinelles, which is a part that Riesling and Hannah both dance. They finished and we were back in the van.
My plan was to go to North Branch Library, but they were just closing as we pulled up. So I headed down the road to the indoor Dayton Farmer’s Market. The Salvation Army was outside ringing bells for their annual Christmas kettle drive. I put a dollar in and asked the kids if they wanted to put their remaining money into the kettle. Hannah asked what it was for and I explained the whole helping the poor and hungry people concept. They decided not to give.
As we entered the building, the kids spotted the pies. The wanted to touch and press them all with their little fingers. I asked them if they were going to buy them and they said yes. I asked which one and we figured out the difference between how much they needed and how much they had, which wasn’t enough. Then they spotted the ice cream. JACKPOT!!! Riesling and Cashel pooled their money and split a cone and Hannah got a whole one, since she didn’t spend any of her money yet.
After I destickied them, we went to a jewelry shop where they watched the proprietor design and string a necklace. And then it was back to ballet.
For the last and final round, Riesling and Hannah are both in the land of the sweets. Riesling was practicing for her part as a Page and Hannah as Spice. While they were waiting to be called back they all played together peacefully with the other children.
We headed back to our house since Hannah’s Dad wasn’t home yet. Hannah, Riesling and Cashel were all in costume before I knew it. After Hannah went home, Riesling and Cashel set up their Ballet mats and danced a pas de duex to Bella Dancerella’s Swan Lake. When it was finished, I furtively watched Riesling practice her entire Polychinelle routine and then she went through the dance she did for her Spring Recital.
Joe was working so I got the kids their dinner and then a bath. I read them The Paper Crane by Molly Bang and Thanksgiving Is by Gail Gibbons. Riesling went out of Cashel’s room and into her room where she said she would be waiting for me to sing to her. Cashel took a while to settle down enough for me to sneak out. I fed the cats to get them to stop meowing at me. As I readied their food, Riesling came out and asked me why I didn’t come sing to her. I let her know that I was on my way.
First I counted to 100 for her and then I sang my best rendition of Redemption Song by Bob Marley and I’ve Been Working on the Railroad (which we’ve been singing to her since she was an infant). As I sang the second song, her eyelids began to be closed more than open and she softly and sweetly fell asleep snuggled up next to me. She’s getting so big and old and all of that. I wonder how many more times I will have the privilege.